Sex + Marriage = Boring???

5 Feb

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Have you ever heard someone say, “wait until the kids come along…you’ll never have sex, you’ll be too tired to do anything, and it won’t even be that great anymore…”

Wow, that sounds like a lot to look forward to, huh???lol… πŸ™‚

Can I break that stereotype for a minute?

Thanks! πŸ™‚

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But seriously, without getting too graphic, let’s tell the truth for a minute here, and let’s examine what God says about sex within marriage…

1. He said that He created it for marriage.

2. He said that it’s good.

3. He said that the marriage bed cannot be defiled, (or that you can do anything you want once married.)

That to me, sounds like a great deal, (and it is!)Β  πŸ™‚

Don’t let the world tell you lies about married sex!

If you’re tired, it’s probably because you’re up late watching American Idol re-runs or Finding Nemo with the babies instead of putting them to bed early and cuddling up with your spouse…Β  πŸ™‚

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If you’re too busy, it’s time to drop one of the millions of activities that you’ve volunteered to help with, focus on the one or two that matter most to you, and spend that leftover time on a date night with your husband, rekindling the fire that so easily can die if we let life’s busyness draw us apart…

And if you think it’s the kids fault that you’re never getting any alone time, then it’s time to make some friends and swap sitting.Β  My husband and I go out alone every week by swapping sitting with our friends.Β  Ex:Β  I watch your girls on a Tuesday morning for 4 hours, and you watch mine on a Friday night for 4 hours…then repeat the cycle…

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With the kids gone, now; you have time to take that romantic walk on the beach, cuddling and snuggling like you did when you first met…Β  Now, you’re able to go to the movies and be care-free, not having to worry about missing the best part of the story to go change a diaper…

Yes, our children are a blessing from God, but the word never tells us that “adult time” away from them is wrong!! πŸ™‚

So, the next time someone tells you that married sex is boring, kindly correct them!! πŸ™‚

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